I met my husband Paul a month before we married. Its funny if it would of been someone else marrying someone they just met I would of laughed at them. I also thought I’d be alone forever I was actually ready for it. Paul asked if I’d like to grab some dinner with him, but since we never met I didn’t think of it as a date just meeting up seeing what the other person was like, I wasn’t looking for a date I just wanted a friend. Paul on the other hand thought it was a date and at the end kissed me goodnight, I was a bit shocked to say the least. The following days he text me all the time it was really sweet and super cute. The following Friday I failed my drivers test and when I told him about it he came straight over from work with my favorite pizza. Late at night I couldn’t sleep and was extremely bored so he came over all the way from the Valley to Thousand Oaks and we went on a drive he asked me to be his gf but instead of saying yes I asked if I could think about it first. We went to his friends house and talked for a few hours and then headed back to Thousand Oaks. We stopped at Dennys and ate some food and I asked him to ask his question again. He did and I said yes this time. I think it was only about a week after we had been dating when we were sitting in his hot tub and he looked at me and I could tell he wanted to say something but was a bit embarrassed. I told him to just say what you want to say and he said “I love you.”. He was the first person I have ever dated to say it to me first and I knew he really meant it. Its weird how in just a month I went from accepting being alone forever to meeting the man I’d be with forever. <3